Hopefully you will never have to deal with this. It's a parent and
grandparent's worst nightmare, but what if your grandchild is using
drugs? I’m not talking about weed; I’m talking about the scary stuff -- Special K (Ketamine), H or Smack (Heroin), X (Ecstasy), Roofies (Rohypnol) and more. How can you tell if your
grandchild is using these types of drugs and what do you do?
THE SIGNS
If your grandchild exhibits one or more of these signs and you have eliminated normal causes, then you might be correct in assuming that your child is using drugs.
Depression
Weakness and lack of muscular coordination .
Anxiety or paranoia
Trembling
Nausea
Dizziness
Facial flushing
Dilated pupils
Inhibition
Amnesia
Problems remembering things they recently said or did
Loss of coordination, dizziness, fainting
Confusion
Sleep problems
Chills or sweating
Slurred speech
Even if you did drugs as a teen, you might not be able to recognize the signs of drug use today. Many of the drugs are different.
CLUB DRUGS:
Club drugs known as X, XTC, K, Roofies are often made in home laboratories so the true make up of the drug is somewhat different and the effects can vary. Here are some of the dangers to discuss with your
grandchild or their parents:
Brain Damage: You’re not lying when you tell your
grandchild that using drugs can cause brain damage. Club drugs can damage the neurons in your brain, impairing your senses, memory, judgment, and coordination. In fact, it’s been found that regular use of ecstasy produces long-lasting, perhaps permanent damage to the brain’s ability to think and store memories.
Loss of Control: Side effects include loss of muscle and motor control, blurred vision, seizures, increased heart rate and blood pressure. Some drugs such as GHB, are depressants that can cause drowsiness, unconsciousness, or breathing problems.
Date Rape: Rohypol or Roofies are used in “date rape” because they are sedatives that can make you unconscious and immobilize you. Rohypnol can cause a kind of amnesia. One scary thing about this drug is that you wouldn’t even know if it was slipped into your drink – it’s odorless and tasteless. If your
granddaughter is going to a club, make sure she knows the risks and NEVER leaves her drink unattended or accepts a drink from someone she doesn’t know and trust.
Death: Club drugs can kill you. Higher doses of club drugs can cause severe breathing problems, coma, or even death.
IS YOUR TEEN AT RISK?
Parents and grandparents can help through early education about drugs, open communication, good role modeling, and early recognition if problems are developing.
To repeat, warning signs of teenage substance abuse may include:
Physical: Fatigue, repeated health complaints, red and glazed eyes, and a lasting cough.
Emotional: Personality change, sudden mood changes, irritability, irresponsible behavior, low self-esteem, poor judgment, depression, and a general lack of interest
Family: Starting arguments, breaking rules, or withdrawing from the family.
School: Decreased interests, negative attitude, drop in grades, many absences, truancy, and discipline problems.
Social problems: new friends who are less interested in standard home and school activities, problems with the law, and changes to less conventional styles in dress and music.
Some of the warning signs listed above can also be signs of other problems. Parents
and grandparents may recognize signs of trouble but should not be expected to make the diagnosis. An effective way for
the family to show care and concern is to openly discuss the use and possible abuse of alcohol and other drugs with their
child/grandchild.
